Laurie's Heart Update

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Dec 29: It happened Dec 27th

There are many of you following (although no one but Deneen leaving a comment!), which I know about when I run into people. There are at least a couple dozen people who are checking fairly regularly that I'm aware of. So please accept my apologies for keeping you waiting.

Martha passed away on Sunday night. John was there, as was his sister Jane and his brother Billy. John said the end was 'beautiful', she started taking shallow breaths about 30 seconds apart, and then, suddenly, for the first time in days, opened her eyes and looked at him.  Then she closed her eyes and just stopped breathing, he said she looked very peaceful. As predicted, he did cry at the finality, which is why you need loved ones around you. No one should die alone, but that person also needs someone with them, so this was best case scenario.

Of course I'm upset that I wasn't there. Clearly she was in her body until the end. Her temperature had climbed to 105 in the last 12 hours, unbelievable that a body could last that long being that hot.

My exhaustion didn't hit until Sunday morning, and I've been just wasted. That's my excuse for not posting then. And, of course, there have been phone calls to various people.

Thanks to all those who have sent me loving texts and the personal hugs from others.
I'll catch up on other things this weekend, in-between sleeping and mental recuperation.

Thanks for checking, Laurie

4 Comments:

  • At 11:28 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Laurie,

    I am sorry for your loss, she sounded like a great person.

    Deneen

     
  • At 7:52 PM, Blogger Barbara Preuninger said…

    Laurie, I'm really sorry that Martha is gone, but I'm glad to hear it was peaceful at the very end. Now my prayers will be for her family (you included, of course!)

     
  • At 4:10 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    hey...
    So sorry that Martha is gone, but so glad she's out of her pain and suffering... also very glad John had family surrounding him when he needed it most.. He knew you were there in spirit, too, honey, never doubt that a second...
    hugs and prayers from my parents and me from FL.. I'll be back @ BMUUF on Jan3, but I'll know where you are if you're not there then..

    love you dearly, Laurie...

    Carol

     
  • At 10:11 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Just wanted you to know I have been reading this as requested for you to know my thoughts of how lucky I am to have known such a fine person all these thirty three years.
    I hope you use what you have written here and other thoughts and write a book or pamphlet or something one day.

    My best to St. Laurie

     

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